Gym Break

Its been hard lately for Yolanda and I go get to the gym together at the same time. I've been able to get there a few times when I'm not working at 8 or 9 but for some reason we haven't been able to get together. It sucks. Really Sucks. I've been trying to get things together and eat less, doing better but then I'll eat ice cream at night with a ton of nuts and drown it in chocolate syrup. So yeah, i'm still struggling. But I do feel healthier by going to the gym on a regular basis now rather than once or twice a month..or every few months. I don't know why it's so freaking hard to get the gym working out and the eating right to go together! Any suggestion??